help needed

You are part of the world family tree, so it's not your tree alone.

Any Pro-user (not only curators) can add profiles, and some information, to any public profile you manage. Hopefully not false.

Private profiles is another matter, not even curators can do anything to those unless you have accepted a family group invitation from them or invited them to your family group.

Before you post on a public discussion thread, I hope that you contacted the curator and discussed the issue? Sometimes there are misunderstandings about what has happened or differences in sources and a private conversation can clear up matters quickly.

I think the question is how do you get the other woman to leave your tree alone? lol

Norm's relatives keep returning from the dead thanks to same curator lol

Hey Sandra, they're stalking through my profiles now! lol Same couple who deleted any links to John and Justin are now adding my entire tree to theirs... guess they have a hard time finding original work.

Dont worry Sandra, I updated Mike Stangel. Hopefully he can deal with the harassment

I am the curator in question I assume.....if you have any issues with things you feel free are incorrect feel free to explain them in a private note or here if you really must air dirty laundry...and I would hardly consider a duplicate of MYSELF "your tree" FYI.

And for what its worth, I left your boyfriends things alone (and even your duplicate of me and my husband) until you started deleting my profiles. He has a distant relationship to my family, as does Sandra (who by the way should look more carefully at your dates, as I nicely tried to give you the heads up on....)

Geni is a collaborative genealogy site, if you are interested in genealogy please stick to that and leave your personal issues aside. If you really want a private tree, Geni isnt the right platform for that, unless you really insist that we cut you out of it and then you can have your own not connected to the "big tree" tree.

Since you're such a great collaborator, could you please stop creating duplicate living profiles of his dead relatives AND give me back my family tree on my side. I get that my son is related to Mike's side of the family but you guys abandoned him in 2004 AND previously deleted his profile from this site which I do still have documentation of in my inbox... cease and desist.

additionally, stop writing in public 'living' profiles for my deceased ancestors and for my living relatives who wish to remain private on this site.

Also, its abundantly clear curator status supercedes blocking which is another issue that needs to be addressed since curators are allowed to make a huge mess of a person's work just because of incomplete research and jumping to conclusions.

Kristina is welcome to speak to geni about reimbursing me for my membership if she insists on continuing to make a MESS of mine, Sandra's and Norm's trees.

Curators using supporting documentation rather than a cut, paste assume ownership method are welcome to assist me with my tree.

Curator added her SPOUSE as manager then removed me as manager of my ancestors that thus far he is only formerly related to via me and my son whom he abandoned in 2002

Fred Bergman, do you have a wise advice for these geni-users? Would be welcome if some of the oldest and to me precious consultants of geni-staff could give an short remark of how to deal with problems like these. Maybe Mike Stangel can give some wise technical approach of what happened here and might be an quarrel not welcome to other geni-devoted genealogy-workers. Thanks for you insight, jMu.

Both have previously been contacted by me about this matter. Would gladly appreciate assistance once again. Currently have 4 pages of revisions including several removals of me as manager of profiles that I created.

and of course adjusting privacy settings to bar access in some cases.

George J. Homs, do you have experience with these kind of matters during your Curator-time in geni? groetjenujMu.

wow i went out with the family last night to come back to this, and yes the curator was asked to stop messing with me tree, when i asked them to stop, they did more to my tree. I do however understand that this is a sharing website but when someone is adding things that are wrong, they need to stop

Kris Hewitt 🧬, Angela G Stewart, f.
You can tell me to mind my own business, of course. But, given that this discussion is in the public space, I'm happy to volunteer as a mediator. If you help me to better understand the issues, I'm sure we'll find a solution. In a public discussion like this, nobody can judge or say anything sensible, as we don't see (let alone, understand) the facts.
Once we have a solution, we'll report it back here.
Is this a sensible proposal?

thanks George, your offer is appreciated very much. But you already know of my side of things and well Kristina stewart is just gonna do what she pleases in spite of me asking her to stop. Im just collecting info and leaving this site instead, i dunno about angela, maybe you can help her

Thanks, Sandra. Kristina signaled as well that she appreciates if I can help with this. If Sandra is OK with this, too, let's discuss in private mail.

I meant, 'if Angela is OK with this', of course :-)

This is a matter of a curator overstepping her bounds by admitted misguided vindictive behaviour on the site.

i agree with angela, i mean this is a sharing site but why do people like kristina force it?? I thought that on this site it is a mutual decision to share?or work together? and how is mediation going to help anyways? She over stepped her bounds plain and clear.

Let me quote her as well..above she says...

"Geni is a collaborative genealogy site, if you are interested in genealogy please stick to that and leave your personal issues aside. If you really want a private tree, Geni isnt the right platform for that, unless you really insist that we cut you out of it and then you can have your own not connected to the "big tree" tree."

Does she speak for the people in charge of this site?

why are my messages hidden?

Sandra and Angela

As a member of this site this Public Discussion disturbs my enjoyment and use of the Geni application.

As it is a Sunday and Geni Customer Service is not available, George Homs has kindly offered to discuss further by Geni mail. Please do take him up on his offer.

Thats fine i wont be posting here anymore, i have notified an appropriate person to manage the situation. Thanks to George but we dont need mediation.

HELP someone!!!! My entire tree was locked so that I cant even edit my own parent and my parent is ALIVE and doesnt want to be on your site please help someone!!!!