History of Nona and Papoo
nikbrickadded this on 23 Jun 2009
Nona and Papoo were born in the late 1800's. Papoo was born in Kastoria, which at the time was Turkey, but which is now Greece. Nona was born in Ioannina, Greece.
Nona's native language was Greek. Papoo's native language was Spanish (Ladino). When they met, Nona learned Spanish and Papoo learned Greek. When they came to the United States, they both learned English. The language that they spoke amongst themselves was Greek, except when Papoo's relatives visited, at which time they spoke Spanish. When Nona got older, she often used more than one language in a sentence. (Papoo never did.)
The names Nona and Papoo were used by all their grandchildren. The names Mama and Papa were used by their children. When Nona was in a playful mood, she often said/sang "Yes, we have no bananas today." Nona often sang -- while she sewed, cooked, and cleaned. Most of the songs she sang were Greek folk songs. One of her favorites was Samyotisa.
In the 1970's Jack interviewed Nona and Papoo about how they met, how they came to America and what their early life in America was like. Nona tells how she heard that some boys from Kastoria (Papoo among them) came to Ioannina to seek brides and how she pitited anyone who was going to marry them.
Legend had it that Kastoria boys came to Ioannina to get married, and then took their wives back to Kastoria to live. The wives became virtual slaves in their in-laws homes. Nona didn't want any part of that. Nona's mother said that they weren't all like that, but Nona said that she didn't want to take a chance. However Papoo was good looking, and she always liked good looking men even when she was in her 90's. After she met Papoo, she decided that she liked him, and that she would marry him. Her father didn't know him, and didn't want his daughter to marry a stranger, so he invited Papoo to stay with them for a few months so he could see what kind of person he was. In the meantime, word got back to Papoo's family in Kastoria that their son was going to marry a Ioannina girl. Papoo's mother was very upset, and rode on horseback to Ioannina to check Nona out, expecting not to like her. (She rode so fast that as soon as she got there, the horse died.) But she, too, visited for awhile, and came to like Nona very much.
Nona wanted to have a bridal procession in the street so that all the town could see her (as was the local custom). Her father arranged it, but the day of the wedding, it rained, and Nona had to run home in her bridal dress. She never got to have her procession.
One day while Papoo was on his extended pre-nuptial visit, Nona's mother cooked fish for breakfast and told Nona to watch it. While the fish was under Nona's care, the cat ate it. Nona was petrified, and didn't know what to do. Papoo came to the rescue. He bought more fish, took it to the town bakery to have it cooked, and brought it home ready to eat. Nona's mother thought that the pieces looked different, but she never found out what happened.
After they got married, Nona and Papoo stayed in Nona's parents house for a short while. Papoo was a tailor, and with the money he earned, they were soon able to move into their own place in Ioannina. Even when they were in their 90's, Nona and Papoo would sit together and hold each other's hands.
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Description This was taken from "A Family Celebration" written and produced by Vivian.
Date 1994
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* Hanoula Anna "Nona" Colchamiro (1882 - 1976)
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