Fond 1900 Census report for what must be Abner Jr, not senior.
John T. his son, born 1870, died 1917, husband of Edith L. (a Sunderland) born 1884, died 1925
Lived with them, Abner, age77 as of 1843, which makes him Abner Jr.
Matilda J. (1844-1923) per Burnside Cemetery records,
George W, born 1890
Abner (the third?) who was born in 1899?
and Henry Lee, b. 1853, and Uncle.
John must be Henry's brother.