{"id":109235,"date":"2022-06-24T15:10:40","date_gmt":"2022-06-24T22:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/?p=109235"},"modified":"2022-06-24T15:10:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-24T22:10:41","slug":"a-dads-best-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/a-dads-best-advice-109235.html","title":{"rendered":"A Dad&#8217;s Best Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>For this Father&#8217;s Day, we asked the community to share the best advice they had ever received from their dad or father-figure in their life. One lucky winner would be chosen at random to receive a free 1-year subscription of Geni Pro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today we are excited to announce the winner of our Father&#8217;s Day giveaway is <strong>Paula Wertheim<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-600x783.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109240\" width=\"350\" height=\"456\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-600x783.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-230x300.jpeg 230w, https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-768x1003.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-1176x1536.jpeg 1176w, https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-1569x2048.jpeg 1569w, https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/PaulaWertheim-scaled.jpeg 1961w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Paula shared a lovely story about her husband&#8217;s late stepfather, John P. Walther.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>My husband&#8217;s late stepfather John P. Walther was the coolest dad a kid could ever hope for.\u00a0When John met Gilda Wertheim in 1962, he was a good 15 years her senior with two grown children of his own, while Gilda was a young widow with 3 children; the youngest was my husband Todd who was 8.\u00a0Although John was raised as a Catholic in Chicago, he made it his business to respect his stepson&#8217;s Jewish heritage by pasting a white satin skullcap on his bald pate and shlepping his young charge to the local synagogue every Sabbath until Todd&#8217;s bar mitzvah. The photo is John Todd and Gilda at Todd&#8217;s bar mitzvah party, 1968.<\/p><p>Here&#8217;s John P. Walther&#8217;s best advice: <\/p><p>After we had been dating for some time in university, Todd decided it was time to take me for a weekend at his home in Catskill, NY to meet his parents. On Sunday morning John took Todd aside and said, &#8220;You had better marry this girl or don&#8217;t talk to me again. I can forgive mistakes but there is NO excuse for stupidity!&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Congratulations, Paula! We hope you enjoy your free year of Geni Pro!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For this Father&#8217;s Day, we asked the community to share the best advice they had ever received from their dad or father-figure in their life. One lucky winner would be chosen at random to receive a free 1-year subscription of Geni Pro. Today we are excited to announce the winner of our Father&#8217;s Day giveaway is Paula Wertheim! Paula shared a lovely story about her husband&#8217;s late stepfather, John P. Walther. My husband&#8217;s late stepfather&#8230; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/a-dads-best-advice-109235.html\"><span>Read the full story<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":81,"featured_media":109240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[141],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109235"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/81"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=109235"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109235\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":109245,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109235\/revisions\/109245"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=109235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=109235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.geni.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=109235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}