I strongly object to your remark about any laziness on my part Lois, and require you to withdraw it.
FYI, I have spent much of my weekend on this issue trying to communicate with a Geni novice who speaks no English, and although willing, has little understanding about what she is required to do, Nor have I received any clear and constructive advice from a Geni curator about what can be done when there are matching profiles that rightfully private because they relate to living individuals.
In order to alleviate matters at almost midnight last night I was even asking for my own linking profiles for Marriane and her husband to be deleted. That is no longer possible, for by 6 am this morning, Marriane's cousin had merged her own profiles to mine, so my profiles for Marriane and her husband cannot be deleted because they are no longer solely managed by me
If there is a way that profiles for living individuals can still be merged Lois, please let me or Marianne know how this can be done. Should your Hungarian not be good enough, send me your text and I will get it translated into Hungarian by my wife. She will then forward it to Marrianne who she is in continuous contact with. Marianne and I both wish the issue to be resolved and anything that anyone can do to speed that resolvement would be greatly appreciated.
Regards Roy