I've been struggling with this one ( and others like it) myself.
I'm just brainstorming here, but if we count the managers of each profile in the pending merge stack as a "vote", we have six votes for her husband being John Stanley, 4 votes for father being Robert, 1 vote for her father being Nicholas, and 1 "abstain" vote for father.
I like Carole's practice of putting the parent's names in the name ... the merging popup can be dangerous.
1/16/2011 at 12:57 AM
I noticed she gave birth to her first child, in 1382 when she was 3 years old... that's just not right.
Birth of Mary Tunstall
<, Thurland Castle, Lancashire, England>
Birth of Thomas (1386) Tunstall, II
Thurland Castle, , Yorkshire, England