To all the kids ( my aunts and uncles ): I of all poeople really do understand your pain and i wish you would tell me how you are really doing. sometims just to have someone to cry with or to yell at for the injustice of it all really can be the best therapy in the world. As my mom used to say " Sometimes you just need a metiphorical punching bag for just a few minuets to fell naormal again."