Hello Richard,
I just wanted to tell you that you made this a PUBLIC discussion. This means it can be seen by ALL Geni users (and Google). Another type, Family-Discussions can only be seen by family members. You probably intended this to be a private MESSAGE, visible only to whoever this is addressed to. You MIGHT want to delete your comment, and send such a message instead. You send a message by clicking the "Send Message" link from the menu on right side of their profile. If there is no such link, as is the case for all three people you tried contacting, then this person has most likely NOT joined Geni.
Shmuel-Aharon Kam,
Geni Curator
