Below: my message to the manager:
Dear Karen,
I am contacting you about this profile: Dorcas Hatch
There are two problems with this Dorcas Sprague . One: She is really a woman, second wife of Joseph Hatch I. Two: The node already has a female Dorcas Sprague attached, but I cannot merge one male and another female.
If you can fix this, hurray. If you cannot we need to consult a curator.
Sincerely, Ethel Johanna Myers