OK, so you are the only one who have the knowledge to fix this.
If this are close relatives and you have a duplicate of one of these profiles you can make your copy temporary public and I can merge them together. When the initial merge is done you should, by becoming a familygroup member as a result of the merge, have access to continue the merge giving you more and more access, also to fix any errors.
@so you are basically suggesting that I put into public domain everything about my family and then you will merge them to the incorrect family and then I have to make changes to everybody before I can then make them private............and if I can't do this I have exactly what I am angry about in the first place, given public access to my family
I don't understand how this Martin can block me from seeing my grandfather when I am a closer step to grandfather than he is, what happened to this "close family can view"