Not much is yet known about Eleazer's first wife: Was she b. in Rehoboth like Eleazar was? Or was she someone he met in New York, or on the way there? We can approximate her birth year as about 1730, marrying ca. 1750 then having her first child in April 1751. As noted at this page:

"The single datum available regarding Eleazer Millard's first wife is an ancient gravestone found next to the grave of her son Jedidiah Millard in Dunning Street Cemetery, Malta, N.Y. This plain, rough, irregular stone yields the partially decipherable words, :ANA Millerd, 176(or 8) Decd. Mother."

"From this inscription it is presumed that Eleazer's first wife, whom he married about 1750 in Dutchess County, died in 1764 here in Albany (now Saratoga) County. Her given name and further identity remain in doubt."

"Ana" and Eleazer Sr. had 7 children, their 5 sons fought the Revolutionary War in the Albany County Militia, 13th Regiment:

• Phoebe Millerd b: Apr 4, 1751 .. + Israel Taylor b: Jun 29, 1748 • Jedidiah Millerd b: Dec 25, 1752 .. + Ann Taylor b: Jun 14, 1752 • Eddy Millerd b: ca 1754 d: after 1809 • Hannah Millerd b: ca 1758 d: after Sep 14, 1809 .. + Henry Bircham, in Manlius in 1810, War of 1812? • Eleazer Millerd b: May 5, 1760 .. + Mary Ann b: March 16, 1761 • Robert Millard b: 1761 .. + Ruth b: Mar 27, 1768 • Nathaniel Millard b: Dec 12, 1764 .. + Mary Hunter b: Aug 27, 1767

On the 1800 Census in Milton, Saratoga, NY were Nehemiah, Samuel, and Edy Millard. Eddy's family consisted of 3 males to age 10, one male age 26-45, one female to age 10, two females age 10-16, one female age 16-26, one female age 26-45.