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Eleanor Love Selden

Birthplace: Exeter, Virginia
Death: Died in Waveland, Fauquier, Virginia
Place of Burial: Charles Town, Jefferson, West Virginia, United States
Immediate Family:

Daughter of Wilson Cary Selden and Lousia Elizabeth Fontaine Alexander
Wife of Lt. Col. John Augustine Washington, lll
Mother of Louisa Fontaine Washington; Jane Charlotte Washington; Eliza Selden Washington; Anna Maria Washington; Lawrence Washington and 2 others
Sister of Mary Bowles Selden

Managed by: Holly Dianne Faulkner
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About Eleanor Love Selden

  • Seldens of Virginia and allied families Volume 1. by Kennedy, Mary Selden
  • https://archive.org/details/seldensofvirgini01kenn
  • https://archive.org/stream/seldensofvirgini01kenn#page/76/mode/1up
  • .... etc.
  • 42 DR. WILSON CARY4 SELDEN (Cary3, Joseph2, Samuel1) was born in 1761. He married, first, Mary
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  • Mason4 Selden (Samuel3, Joseph2, Samuel1), his first cousin (see Number 91), widow of Mann Page, by whom she had three children, William Byrd Page, John Byrd Page, and Jane Byrd Page. Doctor Selden was their guardian. (See Page Family, No. 24). She was born in 1754 and died in Winchester, September 17, 1787. He had no children by his first wife. He married, second, 1794-5, Eleanor Love, by whom he had one child. Eleanor Love was born in 1772, and was the daughter of Samuel Love, of Salisbury, Fairfax County, Virginia, and his wife, Ann Jones, of "Cleandrinking," Montgomery County, Maryland. She died April 16, 1816. Doctor Selden's third wife was Mary Bowles Armistead, daughter of Bowles and Mary (Fontaine) Armistead, and widow of Charles Alexander (See Armistead Family, No. 41 and Alexander Family, No. 6). Doctor Selden was also the guardian of the children of his third wife by her first husband, viz. : William Fontaine Alexander, who married Maria Washington ; Laura Alexander, who died at the age of fifteen; Louisa Alexander, who married Wilson Cary Selden Jr. ; Frances Mary Alexander, who married Rev. Edward Russell Lippitt; and Alfred Alexander who died young.
  • Doctor Wilson Cary Selden was born at Buckroe, the ancestral home of the family. He was educated by his brother-in-law, Doctor James McClurg, and in 1779 was appointed mate in the Marine Hospital at Hampton. In June, 1780, he was appointed surgeon of a Virginia Artillery Regiment, marching to South Carolina, where he was present at the defeat of General Gates. After a dangerous illness, Doctor Selden was advised by the medical and other officers of the army to make a sea voyage, and, three weeks after embarking on a letter of marque owned by his brother, was captured off the Island
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  • of St. Eustatia, and carried to Antigua, where he was confined in prison until 1782, when he was paroled, but at the termination of the war, had not been exchanged. (See Toners "Medical Men of the Revolutionary Army.") The records in the War Department at Washington show that one Wilson Cary Selden served as a surgeon's mate in Edmond's Command of Virginia Artillery, Revolutionary War. His name appears on a general abstract of pay due the Virginia Artillery, on the southern expedition. This abstract, for the months of April and May, 1780, and dated June 12, 1780, bears entries relating to Selden as follows : "Time of service, two months ; pay per month, 50 ; Subs, per mo., 100 ; pay and subsistence, 300; lawful money £90." "Pensions 7443, 7444 and 7445, issued to Dr. Wilson C. Selden for services performed by Dr. Wilson C. Selden, as a surgeon in the State line for three years in the Revolutionary War," are recorded at Richmond. Another record is of an "Indenture made May 13, 1795, between Wilson Cary Selden, of Loudoun, Gent, and Nellie, his wife, of the first part, and Joseph Meredith, of the town of Hampton, of Elizabeth City County, of the second part * * *."
  • In 1790 he bought Buckroe from his father. In 1793 he was a member of the Assembly, and for many years, was a vestryman of the Episcopal Church in Leesburg. After leaving Hampton County he lived in Gloucester, and afterward at "Exeter," in Loudoun County. Doctor Edward Russell Lippitt, who was his step-grandson, wrote the following: "Exeter was named, I think, from the town or city of Exeter in England. Doctor Selden built it between 1796 and 1800. Doctor W. C. Selden (grandpa, as we called him), I remember well. He would give me his finger and lead me to his closet, where he
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  • seemed always to have a supply of raisins or something a little child would like. I remember when he died and the funeral. He was buried at Belmont, Loudoun County. * * * I remember hearing the significance of the Selden crest spoken of * * * The Selden crest is a hand grasping a swan's neck. * * * This crest was lost by Wilson Cary Selden, Junior, in the Potomac River, near Mount Vernon, the family tradition being that this had been the seal worn by Mr. John Selden of England, the celebrated John, who was born in 1584, and died in 1654."
  • Wilson Cary Selden had, by his second marriage to Eleanor Love, one son, Wilson Cary Selden, Junior, of Loudoun, and by his third wife, Mrs. Alexander, nee Armistead, he had two sons and one daughter. His second marriage took place some time between September, 1794, and May, 1795. At this time. Doctor McClurg, in a letter to his Brother-in-law, James Breckenridge, says, "Wilson's wife has been with us some time. We are all very much pleased with her. She is his full match in point of size, and we may expect from them a race of gigantic order." She died at Coton, Loudoun County, Virginia, April 16, 1816, in the forty-fourth year of her age, leaving one son, Wilson Cary Selden, Junior. Her father, Samuel Love, received his estate at Salisbury, in Fairfax County, Virginia, from Queen Anne, in 1736. He and his wife, Ann (Jones) Love, had the following children: (1) Nellie (Eleanor), born 1772, died April, 1816, married Doctor Wilson Cary Selden; (2) Mary, married R. M. Scott; (3) James, married Ann ( ?) Forest; (4) Elizabeth, married John ( ?) Watson; (5) Harriet married Mr. Simmes, died without issue; (6) Ann, born in 1780, died at Keys Farm, Rose County, Ohio, October 15, 1832, aged fifty-two; married John Gaile Scott; (7) Charles married
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  • —— Dixon, had children, and went to Nashville, Tennessee; (8) Richard, of Fairfax County, married in 1811, Eliza Matilda Lee, daughter of Ludwell and Flora Lee, born September 13, 1791, died January 22, 1875; he had six children, of whom Thomas Ludwell died young, Richard, U. S. N., born in 1815, died in 1855, married Martha Ann Pearson, Cecelia Matilda, born in 1823, died in 1850, married, in 1844, Major Lewis Addison Armistead, U. S. A.; and (9) General John, U. S. A. Eleanor (Love) Selden was buried at "Belmont," the home of Ludwell Lee (see Lee Family, Number 5).
  • Mary Bowles (Armistead) Selden, third wife of Doctor Selden, at the marriage of her step-son, Wilson Cary Selden, Junior, to her daughter by her first husband, Louisa Elizabeth Fontaine Alexander, removed from Exeter, to Mount Ida, near Alexander, where she died March 2, 1846.
  • The following is copied from the old family Bible of Mrs. James Breckenridge, of Grove Hill, Botetourt County, Virginia, in April, 1893, by Mrs. Sorrel, of Roanoke, Virginia.
  • "Departed this life Saturday, March 14, 1835, at his home Exeter, near Leesburg, Loudoun County, Virginia, in the seventy-fourth year of his age, Dr. Wilson Cary Selden.
  • ... etc.
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  • Children (by second wife):
    • 43 i Wilson Cary, married, first, Louisa Alexander, second, Elizabeth Armistead Lee.
  • (By third wife) :
    • ii Lucian Cary, b. May 29, 1818 ; d. Sept., 1850.
    • 44 iii Eliza Armistead, married John J. Lloyd.
    • 50 iv John, married, first, Annie Rebecca Kennedy, second, Sarah P. Dandridge Kennedy.
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  • 43 WILSON CARY5 SLEDEN (Wilson Cary4, Cary3, Joseph2, Samuel1) was born in 1796. He was a planter in Loudoun County, Virginia. He married, first, December 20, 1822, Louisa Elizabeth Fontaine, daughter of Charles and Mary Bowles (Armistead) Alexander (see Alexander Family, Number 6). They were married by Reverend John Dunn. Her mother, Mrs. Alexander, had married, when a widow, Doctor Wilson Cary Selden (see Number 42). In 1835 "Exeter" became the home of Wilson Cary Selden, Junior. Louisa Elizabeth Fontaine (Alexander) Selden died October 28, 1826. .... etc.
  • Wilson Cary Selden married, second, Elizabeth Armistead, daughter of Ludwell and Elizabeth (Armistead) Lee (see Lee Family, Number 5). She was born in 1804, and died in 1887. They had no children. At Belmont, near the tomb of his first wife, she erected a tomb to the memory of her husband, who died in 1845. It is inscribed as follows :
  • "Sacred to the Memory of Wilson Cary Selden, Junior, Who departed this life on the 24th of March, 1845, aged forty-nine years.
  • .... etc.
  • Children, (by first wife) :
    • i Molly, born April 9, 1826; died 1831.
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    • ii Eleanor Love, married John Augustine Washington. (See Washington Family, No. 8).
  • 44 ELIZA ARMISTEAD5 SELDEN .... etc.
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  • .... etc.
  • 8 JOHN AUGUSTINE8 WASHINGTON (John Augustine7, Corbin6, William Augustine5, Augustine4, Augustine3, Lewrence2, John1) was born May 3, 1820. He mar-
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  • ried February 10, 1843, Eleanor, daughter of Wilson Cary Selden, of Exeter, Loudoun County, Virginia. (See Selden Family, Number 43.) She was born April 12, 1824. .... etc.
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  • Children :
    • 9 i Louisa Fontaine, married Roger Preston Chew.
    • ii Jean Charlotte, married Nathaniel H. Willis (see Willis Family, No. 25-b).
    • iii Eliza Selden, married Maj. Robert W. Hunter (see Hunter Family, No. 20).
    • iv Anna Maria, married Rt. Rev. Beverley Dandridge Tucker (see Tucker Family, No. 37).
    • 10 v Lawrence Washington, married Fannie Lackland.
    • 12 vi Eleanor Love Selden, married Julian Howard.
    • 14 vii George, married Emily Serena Porterfield.


DAR Lineage Book, Vol. 32 page 56 & 57 -

Cary Selden, his son Dr. Wilson Cary Selden married Eleanor Love. (She is the daughter of Samuel Love, Jr. and Elizabeth Coats Jones.) Their son, Wilson Cary Selden, married Louisa Elizabeth Fontaine Alexander in 1821. Their daughter, Eleanor Love Selden (b. 1822-d.1860) married in 1843 John Augustine Washington.

Seldens of Virginia and Allied Families, page 114 -

Dr. Wilson Cary Selden first married Mary Mason, the widow of Mann Page, in 1782.

The eBook version of Seldens of Virginia, volume 1, page 77 states that there were no children by his first wife. In 1794 or 5, he marries Eleanor Love. He had one child by Eleanor Love. His third wife was Mary Bowles Armistead, the widow of Charles Alexander. He became the guardian of the issue of Mary and Charles Alexander.

eBook page 79 states "Samuel Love ...and his wife, Ann (Jones) Love, had the following children: Nellie (Eleanor) born 1772, died April, 1816, married Doctor Wilson Cary Selden..."

eBook page 82 states "Wilson Cary Selden (Wilson Cary, Cary, Joseph, Samuel) was born in 1796." He first marries Louisa..Alexander in December 1821. His second marriage is to Elizabeth Armistead Lee, daughter of Ludwell Lee and Elizabeth Armistead. No children from this marriage.

The children of Wilson (the son) and Louisa were Molly (b. 1826, d. 1831) and Eleanor Love, married John Augustine Washington. [Her vital information is apparently given at his listing.]

To confuse things more, eBook Seldens..., volume 1, page 85 to 87 states that John (son of Dr. Wilson Cary) .... had a son Wilson Cary Selden who married 1st Elizabeth Catherine Deimer and 2nd Anne B. Days. This Wilson Cary Selden was born 3/22/1846 in Jefferson county, West Virginia.


  • Colonial Families of the Southern States of America: A History and Genealogy ... By Stella Pickett Hardy
  • https://books.google.com/books?id=e1VlAAAAMAAJ&q=selden#v=onepage&q=Selden&f=false
  • Pg.528
  • COL. JOHN AUGUSTINE WASHINGTON, C. S. A., (14—3), of "Mount Vernon," Fairfax Co., Va.; he inherited this estate by the will of his uncle Hon. Bushrod Washington, and resided her until 1860, when he sold the estate to the "Mount Vernon Ladies' Association," and removed to "Waveland," Fauquier Co., Va. He entered the C. S. A. as Aid de Camp on the Staff of Gen. R. E. Lee, with the rank of Lieut. Col. He was b. May 3, 1820, at "Blakeley," W. Va., and was killed Sept. 13, 1861, at Cheat Mountain, W. Va., while on a scout; he m. Feb. 1842, Eleanor Love Selden, dau. of —— and Nellie (Love) Selden. Issue:
    • 15—1. Louisa Fontaine, b. 1844; m. Col. R. P. Chew, C. S. A.
    • 15—2. Jane Charlotte, b. 1846; m. Nathaniel Willis, of Jefferson Co., W. Va., son of Thomas Hite and Elizabeth (Ryland) Willis.
    • 15—3. Eliza Selden, b. 1848.
    • 15—4. Anna Maria, b. 1851; m. 1873, Rev. Beverley Dandridge Tucker, C. S. A., a zealous Minister of the Episcopal Church; son of Nathaniel Beverley and Jane (Ellis) Tucker. Issue: .... etc.
    • 15—5. Lawrence, b. 1854; m. 1876, Fannie Lackland, dau. of Thomas Lackland, of Charleston, W. Va.
    • 15—6. Eleanor Love, b. 1856; m. 1880, Julian Howard, of Richmond, Va.
    • 15—7. George, b. 1858.
  • .... etc.


  • Find A Grave links to Eleanor's listed parents are no longer working, nor her listed brother Wilson C Seldon (1796 - 1843). I suspect Wilson Cary Selden (1761 - 1835) is her grandfather & Wilson C Seldon (1796 - 1843) is her father.
  • Eleanor Love Selden Washington
  • Birth: Apr. 12, 1824 Loudoun County, Virginia, USA
  • Death: Oct. 9, 1860 Marshall, Fauquier County, Virginia, USA
  • Wife of Colonel John Augustine Washington. Eleanor married John in 1843 and they lived together at Mount Vernon until 1860. They were the last private owners of the great president's home. The national landmark was sold to the Mount Vernon Ladies’ Association. Restoration began immediately and the estate was opened to the public.
  • Family links:
  • Parents:
  • Wilson Cary Selden (1761 - 1835)
  • Louisa Elizabeth Fontaine Alexander Selden (1802 - ____)
  • Spouse:
  • John Augustine Washington (1821 - 1861)*
  • Children:
    • Louisa Fontaine Washington Chew (1844 - 1927)*
    • Jane Charlotte Washington Willis (1846 - 1924)*
    • Eliza Selden Washington Hunter (1848 - 1909)*
    • Anna Maria Washington Tucker (1851 - 1927)*
    • Lawrence Washington (1854 - 1920)*
    • Eleanor Love Selden Washington Howard (1856 - 1937)*
    • George Washington (1858 - 1905)*
  • Siblings:
  • Wilson C Seldon (1796 - 1843)**
  • Eleanor Love Selden Washington (1824 - 1860)*
  • Eleanor Love Selden Washington (1824 - 1860)
  • *Calculated relationship
  • **Half-sibling
  • Burial: Zion Episcopal Churchyard, Charles Town, Jefferson County, West Virginia, USA
  • Find A Grave Memorial# 6045746
  • From: http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=6045746


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Eleanor Love Selden's Timeline

April 12, 1824
Exeter, Virginia
February 19, 1844
Age 19
Mt. Vernon, Virginia
May 26, 1846
Age 22
July 17, 1848
Age 24
November 17, 1851
Age 27
January 14, 1854
Age 29
March 14, 1856
Age 31
July 26, 1858
Age 34
Mt. Vernon, VA
October 9, 1860
Age 36
Waveland, Fauquier, Virginia