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Emma Smith Bidamon (Hale)

Also Known As: "Bidamon"
Birthdate: (74)
Birthplace: Harmony, Susquehanna, Pennsylvania, United States
Death: April 30, 1879 (74)
Nauvoo, Hancock, IL, United States
Place of Burial: Nauvoo, Hancock, Illinois, United States
Immediate Family:

Daughter of Pvt. Isaac Hale and Elizabeth Hale
Wife of Joseph Smith, Jr., Prophet and Lewis Crum Bidamon
Mother of Alvin Smith; Louisa Smith; Thaddeus Smith; Joseph Smith III; Frederick Granger Williams Smith and 6 others
Sister of Jesse Hale; David Hale; Alva Hale; Phebe Elizabeth Root; Elizabeth Wasson and 4 others

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About Emma Smith Bidamon

Wikipedia Biographical Summary

"...Emma Hale Smith Bidamon (10 July 1804–30 April 1879) was married to Joseph Smith, Jr. until his death in 1844, and was an early leader of the Latter Day Saint movement in her own right, both during his life and afterward as a member of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (now the Community of Christ). She was also named in 1842 as the inaugural president of the Ladies Relief Society of Nauvoo, a woman's service organization..."

"...Emma was born July 10, 1804, in Harmony Township, Susquehanna County, Pennsylvania, as the seventh child of Isaac Hale and Elizabeth Lewis Hale. Emma first met her future husband, Joseph Smith, Jr., in 1825..."

SOURCE: Wikipedia contributors, 'Emma Smith', Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia, 23 May 2011, 09:57 UTC, <http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Emma_Smith&oldid=430486375> [accessed 2 July 2011]

Newspaper Article

"...PROVO, Utah -- She lost five children in infancy and a sixth when he was 14 months old. Polygamy swirled around her. She was pregnant when her husband was murdered.

Emma Smith left no journals and precious few letters for historians to plumb, but the long and daunting list of hardships suffered by the wife of Joseph Smith, founder of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, ultimately humbled one church historian.

"As a younger professor, I could just go at Emma for different flaws I saw in her life," eminent Brigham Young University church history professor Susan Easton Black said Thursday during a lecture sponsored by the university's Women's Research Institute.

Then Black took on a book project about the wife of Joseph Smith.

"As I have gotten older, I have had more than one occasion to feel humble and to repent of what I have said."

After the luncheon lecture to about 60 students, colleagues and fans at BYU's Kennedy Center, Black said, "We should treat (Emma) with greater kindness in our thoughts and remarks."...

...For Black, a good deal about Emma was revealed in Feb. 1839, after the governor of Missouri posted an extermination order for the Mormons living there. Joseph was in jail and Emma was forced from their Missouri home with their four little children. She crossed the frozen Mississippi River with Julia, 7, and Joseph III, 6, Frederick, 2, and Alexander, who was 8 months old.

She led them across 200 miles of American frontier from Far West, Mo., to Quincy, Ill., on what has been called the Mormon Trail of Tears.

"The recollection," she wrote to her husband, "is more than human nature ought to bear."

So, Black said, is the loss of six young children. After five years of marriage, she had been the mother of five, but had only one babe in her arms.

"Just that alone says, her heartache trumps mine," Black said. "Maybe some of us can stop and give pause to just that statement."

Emma's letter to Joseph after the Trail of Tears is one of a frustrating few known to have survived. She goes on to mention that she would write more but is sure Joseph will pardon her for not doing so "when you reflect how hard it would be for you to write, when your hands were stiffened with hard work, and your heart convulsed with intense anxiety."

"If for nothing else this speech is worth it for me to describe what I view as one of her finest hours," Black said. "Not only does she get her living children to safety, but she thinks enough about the scriptures, she has placed in her skirts and petticoats, the Joseph Smith Translation of the Bible.

"Who saved that from the mob? It was Emma."

She shared Joseph with the church. A friend once advised the Smiths their family budget would improve if they followed Napoleon's example and had a dinner table big enough for just one. Emma replied, "My husband's a bigger man than Napoleon Bonaparte. He can never eat without his friends."

Joseph said, "That's the smartest thing you've ever said."

The 5-foot-9 woman Joseph described as "large-boned" had a dowery of one cow when she eloped with him in 1827. A woman with a beautiful soprano voice, she collected five hymnals during her lifetime for two churches, was a scribe for 16 pages as Joseph Smith translated the Book of Mormon and became the first president of the Relief Society, the largest charitable women's organization in the world.

Joseph Smith's martyrdom obviously broke her heart. The day after a mob shot and killed him and his brother, their bodies were returned to Nauvoo, Ill., where their families had awaited their return home. Emma at first couldn't bring herself to enter the room to view his body.

Finally, she rushed in and cried, "Have they taken you from me at last?"

Later that fall of 1844, when his grave was moved, a lock of Joseph Smith's hair was removed. Emma Smith carried that lock of hair in a locket she wore the rest of her life, according to Black's book.

Emma's heartaches didn't end there, Black said. Emma remarried three years later, but her second husband, Lewis Bidemon, would cause more pain. He had a child with a mistress in Nauvoo, where Emma had remained after Brigham Young led the bulk of the Latter-day Saints to Utah. (She would join the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

When the child was 4, she accepted him and her husband's mistress into her home, where she helped care for the boy until her death 11 years later, in 1879.

Prior to her death, her children asked her about their father.

"I believe he was everything he professed to be," she said.

Black did not discuss polygamy in her lecture.

She lamented how little Emma Smith left in the historical record.

"I've always thought," Black said, "she wanted to be private."...

SOURCE: "Was Emma Smith an 'elect lady'?"; By Tad Walch; Deseret News; Friday, Nov. 07, 2008.

Additional Sources:

J. Christopher Conkling, Joseph Smith Chronology (Deseret Book. Copyright 1979), 1. Repository: Call Number: ISBN: 0877477345.

Emma Smith was the first General President of the Relief Society.

Birth: Jul. 10, 1804 Harmony Susquehanna County Pennsylvania, USA Death: Apr. 30, 1879 Nauvoo Hancock County Illinois, USA

First President of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints from 1842-1844, and wife of the Prophet Joseph Smith, First President of the Church. She was a faithful wife and mother and during times of persecution, her home was always open to the sick and needy. She supervised the work of boarding and clothing the men engaged in building the temples at Kirtland and Nauvoo. She was appointed to make a selection of hymns to be used by the Church in Nauvoo, many of which are included in the L.D.S. hymn book. When the saints were expelled from Illinois in 1846, Emma Smith chose to remain in Nauvoo, encouraging her son Joseph Smith III that he was to be the successor to his father's position as President of the Church. She later married Major Lewis C. Bidamon in 1847.

Family links:

 Isaac Hale (1763 - 1839)
 Elizabeth Lewis Hale (1767 - 1842)

 Lewis Crum Bidamon (1804 - 1891)*
 Joseph Smith (1805 - 1844)*

 Alvin Smith (1828 - 1828)*
 Thadeus Smith (1831 - 1831)*
 Infants Smith (1831 - 1831)*
 Louisa Smith (1831 - 1831)*
 Julia Murdock Smith Middleton (1831 - 1880)*
 Joseph Smith (1832 - 1914)*
 Frederick Granger Williams Smith (1836 - 1862)*
 Alexander Hale Smith (1838 - 1909)*
 Don Carlos Smith (1840 - 1841)*
 Thomas Smith (1842 - 1842)*
 David Hyrum Smith (1844 - 1904)*

 Alva Hale (1795 - 1881)*
 David Hale (1797 - 1878)*
 Phebe Elizabeth Hale Root (1798 - 1836)*
 Isaac W. Hale (1802 - 1892)*
 Emma Hale Smith (1804 - 1879)
 Tryael Hale Morse (1806 - 1860)*
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Burial: Smith Family Cemetery Nauvoo Hancock County Illinois, USA

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Emma Smith Bidamon's Timeline

July 10, 1804
Harmony, Susquehanna, Pennsylvania, United States
June 15, 1828
Age 23
Harmony, Susquehanna, Pennsylvania, USA
June 28, 1830
Age 25
Colesville, New York
April 30, 1831
Age 26
Kirtland, Geauga, OH
April 30, 1831
Age 26
Near Kirtland, Geuaga, Ohio, USA
May 1, 1831
Age 26
Near Kirtland,Geuaga,Ohio
May 1, 1831
Age 26
Near Kirtland, Geuaga, Ohio
November 6, 1832
Age 28
Lake, Ohio, United States
June 20, 1836
Age 31
Kirtland, OH, United States