Need Assistance with Two Profiles for Possible Same Person

I had overlooked that there IS a lot of documentation in the Media section on the Hiram married to Tabitha King:

https://www.geni.com/profile/documents/6000000027490319441

This link has a much larger picture of the grave marker for Hiram and Tabitha King White:

https://billiongraves.com/grave/Hiram-White/26879639?referrer=myher...

Pam Wilson (on hiatus)

may want to join the discussion since she was working on the profile I'm not connected to and that I received the notification on.

To confuse matters more, I just found a Hiram White on a document on Ancestry. He is the son of Lt. Col. Henry White. This Hiram is married to a Mary King! What is with all the Hirams married to King women! lol I never knew Hiram was such a common name.

Anyway, this particular Hiram was born 1801 and died 1873.

I mention this Hiram because the information here matches the grandfather Lt. Col. Henry White line attached as one set of parents for the Hiram I'm not connected to:

Name John W White Different
Birth 1765 New
Marriage 1792 New
Spouse Aggatha Gibbes Match
Father Henry White New
Mother Francis White New
Children Hiram White

If the info on the documentation referenced to this one is correct, this Hiram's wife was Mary King, not Sarah King and not my Tabitha King. So the two Hirams are definitely different people, just happened to be married to King women.

This being said, this means the two Hiram White profiles should never be merged. There is obviously documentation for this Hiram to his father John and his grandfather Lt. Col. Henry White, so definitely not my line there.

The only thing I still have in question about my Hiram's line is whether the photo is my Hiram or this other Hiram. Since the photo was first posted in 2014 for my Hiram and only just today added to the other Hiram's profile, I'm leaning toward it believing it must be his photo and not the photo of the Hiram who isn't my ancestor.

The document I found that last info from Ancestry is from North America, Family Histories, 1500-2000 D
Daughters of the American Revolution
Lineage Book : NSDAR : Volume 161 : 1920

Correction: I stated above that the Hiram b. 1801 was son of Lt. Col. Henry White, I mean to say he is his grandson. Hiram b. 1801 was the son of John W. White. My Hiram's father is also named John, another similarity, but they're not the same John.

However, in tracing the Hiram b. 1801 out in Geni, the connections up his line have him as a descendant of this Isaac White and his wife Mary Ann Ewell, who ARE my direct ancestors and have duplicated profiles up this line. Here is the duplicate on Isaac:

Isaac White I

Here is the profile for Isaac as connected to my line:

Isaac White I

I don't know if Hiram b. 1801 is actually a descendant of the Isaac White that is showing up both our lines or if that is another confused connection on his lines. If they are related, that would explain why so many same names, just down different branches of the same family.

In researching on all this, I see there are multiple profiles for Mary Ann Ewell White, wife of the Isaac White mentioned above:

https://www.geni.com/search?search_type=people&names=mary+ann+w...

I haven't seen anything confirming Isaac's name as Isaac John White. The only reason I can tell it's the same person is the wife Mary Ann Ewell White being the same.