I added this comment to the Overview, since keeping the part from Find a Grave is confusing,,
>>Bathsheba and John were half 1st cousins once removed through Desire Doty, who was Bathsheba's great-grandmother and John's grandmother.<<
because it is probably wrong.
[11/20/2021 edit] -- If this John Holmes was the grandson of Desire Doty, it wasn't through John Holmes (b. 1684 , d. 1754) who married Sarah Church. Maybe Desire Doty was John's great-grandmother also?? However, his grandfather was not the John Holmes who married Sarah Church. Their grandson John Holmes was born c. 1748 and died 8 May 1818 in Cortland County, NY and had married Abigail Shaw (b. c. 1756, d. 1840).