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Neil Macy

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Birthplace: Worcester, Massachusetts, United States
Death: January 11, 2010 (85)
Bloomfield, CT, United States
Place of Burial: Wethersfield, Conn.
Immediate Family:

Son of Nathan Macy and Lillian Macy
Husband of Erma Macy
Father of Private User and Sheri Fors
Brother of June Lisenko and David Macy

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About Neil Macy

Neil Macy was born in Worcester ,Mass. on the 26 of October 1924. His parents, Nathan (Macewitzski) and Lilian (Kaplan) Macy,emigrated to America at the begining of the 20th Century from Russia and Lithuania.They were very orthodox (religiously) and

strictly observed the Mitzvot (commandments) of the Jewish Law. Neil's family lived in poverty during his childhood. After 1929, during the period of the great Depression, the economic situation in his home was very poor. His father was unemployed for many years. In order to help support his family Neil started working from a very early age. When he was 10 years old, he sold newspapers. Later he worked in a gas station, in a supermarket (in the produce department), in a fish store, on tobbaco fields and more. He worked hard and, at the same time, continued to go to school. Neil says that he didn't have a childhood because he worked every free moment that he had when he was not in school. He would go to school in the morning and after school go directly to work, returning home late in the evening. Only then, if he had the energy to do so, would he prepare for next day in school. His memories of his childhood were of poverty; he had a minimum of clothing and he and his family got by on the little that they had. Nevertheless, he was the first in his family to continue studying after high school. In 1942, he began studying at a teacher's college, but in December of that year, the United States entered the Second World War and, as a result, he was forced to stop his studies.

In 1943, Neil volunteered to serve in the U.S. Army and in 1944 he was sent to Europe to fight against the Germans. He participated in the invasion of France and fought in France, Germany and Belgium. Many of the soldiers in his unit were wounded or killed. He was among the soldiers who freed Paris from the Germans and, later, he was wounded in the Battle of the Bulge, in Bastogne, on the border of Belgium. During the fighting, his feet became frostbitten and seriously infected and it was thought that it might be necessary to amputate his legs. He was sent to England and then returned to the U.S. for treatment, which was successful. After a period of recuperation, he was released from the army in December of 1945. After his release from the army, Neil returned to the university (under the G.I. Bill). It was during this time that he met Erma Shapiro. After a period of courtship, they were married on June 15, 1947. His wedding was held the same day as his graduation cermony and the university authorities threatened not to grant him his degree unless he came to the graduation ceremony. In the end, the university authorities agreed to award the B.A. degree in a private ceremony.

During their first year of marriage, Neil and Erma lived in New York, where Neil studied for his M.A. Degree at Columbia University. As a war veteran, Neil received scholarship support under the G.I. Bill. At the completion of his M.A. in 1948, Neil was offered the possibility of continuing for a Ph.D. degree, but he and Erma chose to return to Hartford, where Neil began teaching in the public schools.

Neil was a popular and highly esteemed teacher. He taught courses in various subjects of the Social Sciences, including civics, economics, history. He was known for his innovative teaching methods, which included emphasis on active student involvement in activities such as running a "mock stock market", participating in political campaigns, and other "real-world" activities. He taught students from various social and economic background, some of whom came from impoverished families. He saw his job as an important challenge and he was sensitive to the particular needs of his students, even though he was also strict and required his students to be disciplined and to meet high standards -- and to persevere. Even today he meets former students who thank him for what he did to help them develop and many students have thanked him for the assistance that he gave them which helped them succeed in later life.

In 1968, Neil was promoted to the position of Assistant Superintendent of Schools in Hartford, Connecticut, and this necessitated that he stop his classroom teaching. In his position, he was responsible for personnel in the school system. During this time Neil became an expert in education law, particularly as it relates to emplyment, contract and other working condition and employment issues. He also became an expert in matters relating to due process. During this time he enrolled in a doctoral program operated by Nova University and he completed a doctorate in Education (Ed.D.) in 1976.

In 1970, Erma, his wife, was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). Neil divided his time between the intense demands of his demanding job as Assistant Superintendent of Schools and the responsibilities of being with and assisting Erma. In 1976, with the conmpletion of his doctorate, he decided to take early retirement in order to spend more time with Erma. Nevertheless, as a result of his expertise and experience, Neil continued to work as a consultant in contract negotiations, teacher and administrator terminations and in arbitration cases. In addition, Neil served as a professor for Nova University (organizing several doctoral "clusters"), taught as an adjunct Professor in the School of Education at the University of Connecticut, and lectured on education law and personnel issues throughout the United States. Neil continued to teach as an Adjunct Professor at he University of Connecticut for 13 years and directed a number of Doctoral dissertations. His work as a consultant continues until today (2009), although in the last year or two he has cut back on his work. In 1989, Neil was appointed the Chairperson of the Connecticut Civil Rights Commission, which operates under federal law and the mandate of the United States Civil Rights Commission. He served as Chair and as a member of this Commission for a number of years.



            
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Neil Macy's Timeline

1924
October 26, 1924
Worcester, Massachusetts, United States

oct 26 1924

2010
January 11, 2010
Age 85
Bloomfield, CT, United States

Published in Hartford Courant on January 13, 2010

MACY, Neil Neil Macy, loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather, passed away on January 11 at Caleb-Hitchcock Hospital at Duncaster in Bloomfield. Born in Worcester, October 26, 1924, the son of Nathan (Macewitzski) and Lillian (Kaplan) Macy, he had been a long term resident of Hartford and Bloomfield.

Neil served in the U.S. Army under General Patton and fought in France, Germany and Belgium, receiving a battlefield promotion to Sergeant. He was seriously wounded in the Battle of the Bulge, in Bastogne, and completed his army service in December 1945. After his army service, Neil resumed his interrupted university education. He graduated from Central Connecticut State University (B.A.), the Teachers College at Columbia University (M.A.) and Nova University (Ed.D.), and earned a 6th Year Certificate in Educational Administration from the University of Hartford. Neil was an educator and mentor in spirit and soul, not merely by profession.

He taught for many years in the Hartford Public Schools (1948-50: Hartford Public High School; 1950-59: Northeast Junior High School; 1959-68: Bulkeley High School) and served from 1968-1976 as Administrator for Personnel and Labor Relations and Assistant Superintendent of the Hartford Public Schools. From 1976-1994 Neil served as a Visiting Professor in the School of Education at the University of Connecticut and mentored numerous doctoral students, many of whom continued to keep in touch with him and to rely on his advice and mentoring throughout their careers. Dr. Macy also served for many years as the coordinator of and a professor in a Nova University Ed.D. program, and here too he mentored numerous students. Neil lectured throughout the country on Labor Relations in Education and was the recipient of a number of teaching awards, including the Distinguished Professor of the Year (1985) of the National Academy For School Executives, of the American Academy of School Administrators.

His practical involvement in educational labor relations included his work as a consultant to over 20 boards of education in Connecticut and to boards of Education in New Hampshire, New Jersey, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Arizona and Nevada. He also served as a consultant for the departments of education in Connecticut, Alabama and Tennessee. In addition, he served for over 20 years as the Labor Relations consultant for the University of Connecticut Board of Trustees and for a number of years represented the Chancellor of Higher Education in Nevada. Neil served for 10 years on the Connecticut Civil Rights Commission and for six years was its co-chairman. He also served from 1991-1994 on the United States Commission on Civil Rights.

Neil treated all with equality and human dignity and he was a partner, with his wife Erma, in efforts to improve the lives of those with disabilities. He gave freely of his time to all who were in need, particularly if he felt that they suffered from injustice or prejudice. Neil was an active member of the Emanuel Synagogue, West Hartford, and taught 10th grade (Confirmation Class) for many years in the Synagogue's religious school. In addition, he was a frequent member of the educational boards of the Emanuel Synagogue and the Greater Hartford Jewish Federation.

Neil's lifelong devotion to family, friends and to those in need of assistance serves as an inspiration to all who knew him. He was a devoted partner to Erma, his wife of over 62 years, who passed away three months ago, and encouraged and assisted her to live an active, non-disabled life, despite the fact that she suffered from Multiple Sclerosis for the last 40 years of her life. He was a supportive father to his two children, Dr. Jeffrey Macy and Sheri Macy, to his daughter-in-law Rachel Macy and son-in-law Chuck Fors, and a caring and loving grandfather to Daphne and Noa Macy, his two granddaughters.

The family would like to give special thanks to Carol Mortenson and the staff of the Caleb-Hitchcock Hospital; to Neil's physicians: Dr. Robert Dicks, Dr. Timothy Curley and Dr. Pat Corcoran, who were supportive, professional and treated him as a friend and not merely a patient; and to the devoted staff of Duncaster, the community that was home to Neil and Erma Macy during their last four years.

Funeral Services will be held in the Main Sanctuary of the Emanuel Synagogue, 160 Mohegan Drive, West Hartford, on Thursday, January 14, at 11 A.M. Rabbi Philip Lazowski, Cantor Sanford Cohen and Mr. Moshe Pinchover will officiate. The funeral preparations and arrangements are under the direction of the Weinstein Mortuary. Interment Service follows at the Emanuel Synagogue Cemetery, 1361 Berlin Turnpike, Wethersfield.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Dr. Neil and Erma Macy Accessibility Fund at the Emanuel Synagogue, to Caleb-Hitchcock Hospital at Duncaster, or to a charity of the donor's choice. The family will observe a memorial period at the home of Neil Macy at Duncaster, 40 Loeffler Road, Apt. TN 426, Bloomfield, on Thursday, after the interment until 8 P.M., on Friday from 10 A.M. until 2:30 P.M., on Saturday from 6-9:30 P.M., and on Sunday from 11 A.M. until 8 P.M.

A Minyan will be held Thursday and Sunday at 4:30 P.M. The remainder of the memorial period will be held in Israel at the home of Dr. Jeff Macy. For further information, directions, or to sign the guestbook for Neil please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com

January 11, 2010
Age 85
Emanuel Synagogue Cemetery,, Wethersfield, Conn.