Telitha Durham - telitha ellen durham

Hi My name is Kathy " May" Deyoe Telitha Ellen Durham was my gg grandmother, she married Abram May (of German ancestry) 2/19/1852 in Missouri, she was born 5/19/1836 in Morgan County Indiana she passed away in 1920 In North Bend,Washington state somehow the date didn't save in my ftm.Abram was born 10/30/1830 in Hardeman Co Tennessee and died in 1/17/1914, I got the birth and death dates off there gravestones in the cemetery near where i live.
Children
Frederick N.May ( my great grandfather) born 9/2/1876
Eiliza Ann May 7/6/1856
Joseph Lee May 7/25/1859
Paul May 1865
Eva May 1867
Abraham May 1869
Olive "Ollie" May May 6/2/1875
Minnie May 1879
They came up on the Oregon trail from missoure and settled in coos bay oregon, where they made a living, and then moved to Northe Bend Washington and settled there and built a large home