This discussion has reference to Jacobus Abraham Adriaan Botes, b2c6d17 and Jacobus Abraham Adriaan Botes, b2c6d17.
According to the SA Familyregister (SAF) they were married to specific wives which were taken up in the register decades ago and were added by Geni users according to those SAF entries.
The will of one of these cousins https://media.geni.com/p13/42/f9/95/e9/5344483ef47b2664/boedel_j_a_... clearly shows how these cousins should have been paired.
I changed Geni to reflect the correct situation and included this status in my latest revision of the BOTES family register for GISA
Document https://www.geni.com/documents/view?doc_id=6000000028661837195& gives the marriage of the other cousin