Lucretia Gorton Wales (Beckwith) - Help

I would like some help to differentiate several people of same or similar names and also some clarifications on a Loyalist with a DAR number:
Lucretia Gorton Wales (Beckwith) Lucretia Gorton Wales vs Lucretia Steward (Beckwith) Lucretia Steward
Elisha P Beckwith Elisha P Beckwith who married Abigail Beckwith (Willey) Abigail Beckwith
vs
Elisha Beckwith Elisha Beckwith who married Amy Beckwith (Durand) Amy Beckwith

Wikitree profile: https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Beckwith-1613
DAR record: Ancestor #: A202636 https://services.dar.org/Public/DAR_Research/search_adb/?action=ful...
vs DAR Elisha who is questioned to be a loyalist: https://services.dar.org/Public/DAR_Research/search_adb/?action=ful...

I come to them due to a DNA match with Lucretia Beckwith Steward (wife of Asahel Steward/Stewart Asahel Steward, Sr ) and am at a standstill until these can be resolved. I do not think I descend from any of these but they are in need of correction/clarification and MP if possible?!