Emily Maria Charlotte Carr

From FreeBMD - Registration of birth of Emily Mary Charlotte Oakes in 1843

July to September 1843: Registration of birth of Emily Mary Charlotte Oakes; in Mitford, Norfolk (Volume 8, Page 197)

From British Newspaper Archive: Monthly Times Wednesday, 6 September 1843 Page 13 Births

Births: Wednesday, 16 August 1843. At East Dearham, Norfolk, Mrs. R. M. Oakes, daughter. Dereham, Norfolk 52.681, 0.940

From MyHeritage: Richard M Oakes: 1861 England & Wales Census

7 April 1861 Census for residents of [Greenhill Road, Harrow, London HA1 1LD 51.5831733, -0.3349878], England

• Richard M Oakes, head, married, male, aged 70 [born about 1791], in Yorkshire; Lieutenant Colonel, Army, Retired
• Sophia C Oakes, wife, married, female, aged 51 [born about 1810], in London, Middlesex
• Emily M C Oakes, daughter, single, female, aged 17 [born about 1844], in East Dereham, Norfolk
• 4 siblings, 5 servants

From FreeBMD - Registration of marriage of Emily Mary C Oakes in 1869 and FreeBMD - Registration of marriage of Richard Whitfield Hewlett in 1869

• July to September 1869: Registration of marriage of Richard Whitfield Hewlett; in Hendon, Middlesex (Volume 3a, Page 137)
• July to September 1869: Registration of marriage of Emily Mary C Oakes; in Hendon, Middlesex (Volume 3a, Page 137)

From British Newspaper Archive: Home News For India, China and The Colonies Friday, 30 July 1869 Page 22 Marriages

Marriages: Hewlett — Oakes — Wednesday, 28 July 1869 at St Mary's Church, Church Hill, Harrow on the Hill, London HA1 3HL 51.57417, -0.33750, Richard Whitfield Hewlett, Esq., M.D., to Emily Mary Charlotte Oakes, daughter of the late Richard Montague Oakes, Lieutenant-Colonel H.M.'s 1st Life Guards, of Elmsfield, Harrow.

From British Newspaper Archive: Saunders's News-Letter Saturday, 31 July 1869 Page 3 Married

Married: On Wednesday, 28 July 1869, at St. Mary's Church, Harrow-on the Hill, by the Rev. Arthur P. Arnott, M.A., cousin of the bride, assisted by the Rev. F. Hayward Joyce, M.A., vicar of Harrow, Richard Whitfield Hewlett, Esq., M.D., to Emily Mary Charlotte Oakes, third daughter of the late Richard Montague Oakes, Lieutenant-Colonel H.M. 1st Life Guards, of Elmsfield, Harrow.

From The History of The Family of Carr of Woodhall, Lesbury, Eshott, and Hetton Volume 3 by R.E. Carr C.E. Carr Rev. T.W. Carr Published 1899 Page 205

Emily Mary Charlotte Oakes, widow of Richard Whitfield Hewlett, M.D., who died at Naples 21 July 1871 (leaving one daughter Etheldreda Mary Marguerite Hewlett, born at Naples 16 April 1871), and 3rd daughter of the late Richard Montague Oakes, Lieutenant Colonel 1st Life Guards, of Elmfield, Harrow, and Sophia Fletcher his wife; married Rev. Thomas William Carr, born 1830, as 2nd wife at Christ Church, Lancaster Gate, 2 July 1891.

From MyHeritage: Thomas William Carr in 1901 England & Wales Census

31 March 1901 Census for residents of Long Rede, now 3 Wesley Close, Maidstone, Kent ME16 9HT 51.269226, 0.474348, England

• Thomas William Carr, head, married, male, aged 70 [born about 1831], in Clifton Bristol; Clergyman, Church of England; Employer, Orchards
• Emily Mary Charlotte Carr, wife, married, female, aged 57 [born about 1844], in East Dereham, Norfolk
• Margaret Lucy Carr, daughter, single, female, aged 29 [born about 1872], in Barming, Kent
• Rosa Cornish, servant, single, female, aged 24 [born about 1877], in Westbury Wiltshire; Lady's Maid (Domestic)
• Agnes Annie Marry, servant, single, female, aged 29 [born about 1872], in Summertown[Somertown?], Oxfordshire; Parlour Maid (Domestic)
• Any Alberta Laws, servant, single, female, aged 22 [born about 1879], in Romsey, Hampshire; Housemaid (Domestic)
• Elizabeth Akehurst, servant, single, female, aged 20 [born about 1881], in Maidstone, Kent; Cook Domestic
• Sarah Jane Williamson, servant, single, female, aged 16 [born about 1885], in Maidstone, Kent; Kitchen maid Domestic
• George Hopkins, servant, single, male, aged 20 [born about 1881], in Elmstead, Kent; Coachman Domestic

From MyHeritage: Thomas William Carr: 1911 England & Wales Census

2 April 1911 Census for residents of Long Rede, East Barming, Kent, England; House with 15 rooms

• Thomas William Carr, head, married for 19 years [about 1892], no children, male, aged 80 [born about 1831], in Clifton, Bristol, Gloucestershire; Clerk in Holy Orders, Church of England, Rector of Barming, Kent
• Emily Mary Charlotte Carr, wife, married for 19 years [about 1892], no children, female, aged 67 [born about 1844], in East Dereham, Norfolk
• Etheldred Mary Marguerite Hewlett, step-daughter, single, female, aged 39 [born about 1872], in Naples, Italy, Resident; Private Means
• Fanny Bartholomew, servant, single, female, aged 53 [born about 1858], in West Hendred, Berkshire; Domestic Servant Parlourmaid
• Flora Juliana Ingram, servant, single, female, aged 43 [born about 1868], in Chilmark, Wiltshire; Domestic Servant Cook
• Alice Smitherman, servant, single, female, aged 26 [born about 1885], in West Barming, Kent; Domestic Servant Housemaid
• Laura Clark, servant, single, female, aged 44 [born about 1867], in Quendon, Essex; Domestic Servant Lady's Maid
• Dorothy May Gibbon, servant, single, female, aged 16 [born about 1895], in Maidstone, Kent; Domestic Servant Kitchen Maid

From FreeBMD - Registration of death of Emily M. C. Carr in 1935

January to March 1935: Registration of death of Emily M. C. Carr; aged 91 [born about 1844]; in Maidstone (Volume 2a, Page 1250)

From Ancestry 19350401 probate Emily Mary Charlotte Carr Speedwell Plat Barming Woods Maidstone d 19350125 pr London Lionel Mowbray Hewlett Lancelot Sackville Fletcher £9642

1 April 1935 probate of Emily Mary Charlotte Carr of Speedwell Plat, Barming Woods, Maidstone, Kent, widow, who died 25 January 1935, probate granted in London on 1 April 1935 to Lionel Mowbray Hewlett, solicitor, and Lancelot Sackville Fletcher, barrister. Effects £9642 5s. 5d.

[Speedwell Platt, North Pole Road, Barming, Maidstone, Kent ME16 9HH 51.26933, 0.46537]