When Mary E Wilhelm was born on December 17, 1960, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, her father, Gerald, was 27, and her mother, Charlotte, was 24. She lived in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, in 1993. She has one sister. Mary Wilhelm (age 26) and Jim Curtis (age 32) meet at 6:00 pm on Wednesday, May 20, 1987. Mary was looking for an apartment not a boyfriend. She had an appointment to see an place next door but the manager had a family emergency (left note). Mary went to the building next door (on the corner of Oakland Avenue and Kenwood Avenue on the east side of Milwaukee, Wisconsin), to try to see if that property had any openings or find the manager. Jim Curtis walked in (dressed in a white tee shirt, sport about jeans from K-Mart, & blue Velcro shoes carrying a bag with 1 Big Mac from the McDonald's next door). Mary asked Jim who was the manager & which bell to ring. (Jim said Rick Klunder was the manager and Jim rang the bell but there was no answer. Mary being the shy (Ha Ha LOL) ask Jim if she could see his apartment. Jim said YES but do you want me to leave the door open? Mary said NO. Jim and Mary went up to his apartment and they talked all night. Jim being the perfect gentleman that he is didn't even try to kiss Mary even though she was only wearing a sundress and white sandals. Mary left about 3 am. Mary and Jim exchanged phone numbers. It only took Jim until Friday, May 22,1987 to call Mary and asked her if she would go out that night.Their first date was at Coffee Trader. Mary said YES and they have been together ever since. Mary had been (subletting an apartment from a female grad student (near the building as where Jeffry Dalhmer would later eat the people). The semester was ending at Marquette University and Mary had to move out on May 31, 1987. Jim helped Mary find an apartment a few blocks up the street. They spent another night together on Sunday, May 31, 1987 and Jim had to work all day on Monday, June 1, 1987. Jim work for FunJet vacations as a manager and Hewlett Packard (HP) computer programmer. Her father Gerald "Jerry" T passed away on September 4, 2005, in Campbellsport, Wisconsin, at the age of 72. Occupation: Medical Actor / Standardized Patient