Judi --
From what I have seen with Sharon ( and with myself ):
OPEN discussion
Arguements supported by sources or facts or common sense e g. A child can not be born before his parents ,10 year olds rarely have chidren, not likely for siblings to marry .
Fair amount of time before any action is taken
Allowing anyone to partake ( not just relatives , desendants or nanagers ) and managers to get involved. Geni is a collaborative process after all.
Most importantly to act a.s a.p. on any request or query out of respect for everyone .
.Sharon never ever just delete , correct, maintain any profile or information without very good supported reasons.
Users are leaving because facts and sources are not the backup or basis of profiles.
Others are petty insecure individuals that only want things their way even when they can not give supporting sources and somehow think their age , religion, race , profession , sex being a professor of mathematics or something as irrelevant
instantaneously gives their arguments more credence.
You youself - Judi - always ask for sources so you actually inderectly support deletions ,corrections and removing relationships if not supported by valid reliable sources .