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Elizabeth Graves (Cruttenden)

Also Known As: "Stillwell"
Birthdate:
Birthplace: Hawkhurst, Kent, England
Death: after June 11, 1698
Guilford, New Haven County, Connecticut
Immediate Family:

Daughter of Abraham Cruttenden of Guilford and Elizabeth Crittenden
Wife of John Graves; Jasper Stillwell and Deacon John Graves
Mother of Elizabeth Freeland; John Graves; Elizabeth Graves; Elizabeth Graves; Sarah Robinson and 3 others
Sister of Abraham Cruttenden, Jr.; Mary Bartlett; Hannah Hiland; Thomas Crittenden; Isaac Cruttenden and 3 others

Managed by: Stephen Edward Dickson
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About Elizabeth Graves

Elizabeth Cruttenden, bp. 30 Nov 1634, at Hawkhurst, widow of Jasper Stillwell and the daughter of William and Mary Cruttenden, married John Graves 2nd. "Elizabeth Cruttenden, bp. [Hawkurst, Kent, England] 30 Nov. 1634; d. after 11 June 1698, the date of her brother Thomas's inventory; m. (1) Jasper Stillwell, bur. Guilford 8 Nov. 1656; m. (2)… John Grave."

She had 2 children named Elizabeth, one died as an infant Elizabeth Graves II

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/59102254/elizabeth-graves

John Graves married on 2 Nov 1657 to Elizabeth (Cruttenden) Stillwell in Guilford, CT. She was born about 1639, the daughter of Abraham and Mary Cruttenden of Guilford. She was the widow of Jasper Stillwell, who was buried 11-8-1656. She did not remarry after John's death. [see "about Elizabeth Cruttenden" section.] [1]

Children of John Graves and Elizabeth Stillwell:

  1. John, b. 2-27-1658/9, m. 1-2-1684/5 Elizabeth Foote, d.12-1-1726.
  2. Elizabeth, b. 4-11-1661, d. 1662.
  3. Elizabeth, b. 9-16-1665, d. .05-28-1687
  4. Sarah, b. 3-14-1668, m. 1-17-1694 Thomas Robinson, Jr., d. 9-10-1715.
  5. Abigail, b. 3-6-1670, m. 6-14-1694 (Ensign) Ebenezer Benton, d. 4-10-1753.
  6. Joseph, b. 8-27-1672, m. abt. 1697 Margaret Wilcoxson, d. 1714.

There are a number of conflicting accounts of who John married. Several claim that he married Elizabeth Stillwell, the widow of Jasper Stillwell and the daughter of William and Mary Cruttenden, Chittenden, or Crittenden. Others claim that he married Elizabeth Stillwell, daughter of Jasper Stillwell, and secondly Elizabeth Cruttenden. I am guided by Donald Lines Jacobus who addressed these issues in an article titled Graves-Cruttenden-Stillwell: A Correction,(The American Genealogist), and quoted by Perry Streeter (see Resources):

In short, John Grave(s) had but one wife, Elizabeth Crittenden [sic], whom he married under the name Stillwell because she was the young widow of Jasper Stillwell and that was then her correct surname. Jasper was buried 8 Nov. 1656, and his widow decently waited a year until 26 Nov. 1657 before she married John Graves. She was the mother of all his children. This is proved readily enough by the will of Abraham-1 Cruttenden, dated 14 Sept. 1681 [New Haven Probate, 1: part 2:94], in which he gave L-5 to "my daughter Elizabeth Grave."

References

  1. Lynes, Martha A. The Ancestry of William(1) Chittenden of Guilford, Connecticut. New England Historical and Genealogical Register. (New England Historic Genealogical Society, Jul 2006), (at 160:214). "Elizabeth Cruttenden, bp. 30 Nov. 1634; d. after 11 June 1698, the date of her brother Thomas's inventory."
  2. Lynes, Martha A. The Ancestry of William(1) Chittenden of Guilford, Connecticut. New England Historical and Genealogical Register. (New England Historic Genealogical Society, Jul 2006), (at 160:213). "The surname Cruttenden frequently appears as Crittenden in the Guilford records."
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Elizabeth Graves's Timeline

1634
November 30, 1634
Hawkhurst, Kent, England
November 30, 1634
Hawkhurst, Kent, England
1640
1640
Prince George, Maryland, United States
1658
February 27, 1658
Guilford, New Haven Colony
1661
April 11, 1661
1665
September 16, 1665
Guilford, New Haven County, Connecticute, British Colonial America
1667
March 14, 1667
Guilford, New Haven, Connecticut
1669
March 6, 1669
Guilford, New Haven County, Connecticut Colony