Helen Bessie Stuart Pain

From http://www.stsepulchres.org.uk/burials/steel_children.html

Mrs Helen Bessie Stuart-Pain, née Steel (born 1857)

On 13 February 1889 at St Giles’s Church, Helen Bessie Steel married George Stuart-Pain, the youngest son of the late Henry Pain of Wallop, Hampshire. George was a tea planter, and Helen went with him back to Balijam Assam. He died at the age of 40 at Lakhimpur, Assam on 25 August 1897. Helen does not appear in the 1901 or 1911 censuses, but by the time of her death in 1930 she had returned to England and was living at Hartford Bridge, Hartley Wintney, Hampshire:

† Mrs Helen Bessie Stuart-Pain née Steel died at Elvetham, Hampshire at the age of 72 on 16 February 1930 and was buried at St Sepulchre’s Cemetery on 19 February (burial recorded in the parish register of St Giles’s and probably also Ss Philip & James’s Church).

Her effects came to £202 4s. 3d.

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1911 Census - with her daughter in Worthing, head of housee in a 10-roomed house called "Balijan" on the corner of Rugby Rd and Eton Rd. George Blackham is a schoolmaster, a visitor; Laura Blackman is a servant. (see attached):
Name Violet Pain
Event Type Census
Event Date 1911
Event Place Worthing, , Sussex, England
County Sussex
Parish Worthing
Sub-District Worthing
Registration District East Preston
Gender Female
Age 19
Marital Status (Original) SINGLE
Birth Year (Estimated) 1892
Birthplace Delbruyard Assm [incorrect transcription - see below]
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Line 2
Page 1
Helen Bessie Pain Head F 64 Harras, Middlesex
Violet Pain Daughter F 19 Delbruyard Assm
George Blackham Visitor M 23 Enfield Haybury, Middlesex
Laura Blackman Servant F 23 Itchingfield, Sussex
"England and Wales Census, 1911," database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:X71W-Z51 : 2 August 2017), Violet Pain in household of Helen Bessie Pain, Worthing, , Sussex, England; from "1911 England and Wales census," database and images, findmypast (http://www.findmypast.com : n.d.); citing PRO RG 14, The National Archives of the UK, Kew, Surrey.

1911 Census from Ancestry:
Name: Violet Pain
Age in 1911: 19
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1892
Relation to Head: Daughter
Gender: Female
Birth Place: Dibrugarh Assam
Civil Parish: Worthing
County/Island: Sussex
Country: England
Street address: Balyan Eton Road Worthing
Marital Status: Single
Registration district: East Preston
Registration District Number: 84
Sub-registration district: Worthing
ED, institution, or vessel: 21
Household schedule number: 195
Piece: 5340

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Burial:
Name: Helen Bessie Stuart-Pain
Age: 72
Birth Year: abt 1858
Burial Date: 19 Feb 1930
Burial Place: Oxford, St Giles, Oxfordshire, England
Parish as it Appears: St Giles