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Category:Lyme, ConnecticutCategory:Saybrook, ConnecticutCategory:Hebron, ConnecticutCategory: WeaversCategory: Gilead Cemetery, Gilead, Connecticut
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Phebe, daughter of John Lay Jr, was born 13 Jan 1684 (1684/5), in Lyme Connecticut.≤ref>"Births, Marriages, and Deaths in Lyme, Conn" New England Historical and Genealogical Register. 24:31, 1870≤/ref>≤ref> "Lyme (Conn.) Vital Records" The American Genealogist. 10:218 citing p. 24 of original records. Lists "The burth of John: Laye Junr. his Children."≤/ref> John Lay's wife was Sarah Andrews.≤ref> McCormick III, Robert Hall. "Sarah Andrews as wife of John Lay "Drummer": McCormick-Hamilton Lord-Day Ancestral Lines (1957) pp 637-640.≤/ref>
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}}Phebe Lay married Jordan Post, 17 Nov 1703, in Saybrook, Connecticut.≤ref name=SaybrookBC>White, Lorraine Cook, ed. The Barbour Collectionof Connecticut Town Vital Records. Vol. 1-55. Baltimore, MD, USA: Genealogical Publishing Co., 1994-2002. Saybrook p 93.≤/ref> Besides being a farmer's wife and mother, she probably had some skill as a weaver. Jorden died 20 Jan 1747, in Hebron.≤ref>Connecticut Vital Records to 1870 (Online Database: AmericanAncestors.org, New England Historic Genealogical Society, 2011.) From original typescripts, Lucius Barnes Barbour Collection, 1928. Hebron p. 111≤/ref>≤ref>Photo of Gravestone Findagrave 45179347 Jordan Post. Andover Road Cemetery, HebronTolland County, Connecticut, USA≤/ref> His will written the day before his death, left provision for his "well beloved wife Phebe" giving her the use of the west room in his dwelling, and part of the orchard and garden. These items were to revert to son Jordain, when she died orremarried. He also left her a pair of worsted cams and a pair of weavers looms and all the tackling and some household items to be hers forever, indicating that she was the weaver in the family. The will also made bequests to their children, Gordain, Jedediah, John, Phebe, Ann, and Sarah.≤ref>Probate Packets, Patterson-Puffer, 1741-1880 Connecticut County, District and Probate Courts. Jordain Post. Hebron 1747 #2466. East Haddam/Colchester Probate District. Accessed at Ancestry.com. as Connecticut, Wills and Probate Records, 1609-1999≤/ref>
Phebe and Jordan moved several times. The moves can be tracked by the births of their children as well as land records.≤ref name=Rudy>Rudy, Michael. "The Colonial Post Family of Saybrook and Hebron, Connecticut: Abraham Post and his Descendants". New England Historical and Genealogical Register 146:211. Children of Jordan on 228. 1992≤/ref> They went from Saybrook, where they married and the Post family lived, to Haddam, Connecticut, about 1708. He sold his house in Haddam in 1713.≤refname=Rudy /> Hebron, Connecticut, was a new town in 1708, settled in 1704/5 by members of the Post and Lay families and others. Jedediah's birth about 1716 and Elenor's about 1719 went unrecorded, perhaps because the rules about birth registrations didn't yet exist or were not being well kept.
Phebe remained a widow, until she was 76, when she married Benoni Trumbull Jan 1760 at the Hebron Congregational Church.≤ref name=HebronCh />
Phebe Trumbull, wife of Capt Benoni, died 19 Sep 1762,, in Hebron, Connecticut.≤ref name=HebronCh> Church Records Index. Connecticut State Library, Hartford, Connecticut. Volume 054 Hebron p. 87/8≤/ref> She is buried next to Benoni in the Gilead Cemetery, in Hebron.≤ref>Photo of gravestone Find a grave 7569852. Phoebe Lay Post Trumbull. Gilead Cemetery, in Hebron, Tolland, Connecticut, USA.≤/ref>≤ref>Charles R. Hale Collection of Connecticut Cemetery Inscriptions. Gilead Cemetery, Hebron, Connecticut.≤/ref>
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≤references />* ≤span id='Gay'>≤/span>Gay, Frank. The Descendants of John Drake of Windsor, Connecticut (Tuttle Co., Rutland, VT, 1933) Page 33
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1684 |
January 13, 1684
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Lyme, New London County, Connecticut Colony, Colonial America
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1704 |
October 22, 1704
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Old Saybrook, Middlesex County, Connecticut, United States
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1709 |
November 11, 1709
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Haddam, Hartford County, Connecticut Colony
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1711 |
March 8, 1711
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Haddam, Middlesex, Connecticut, United States
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1716 |
1716
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Hebron, Tolland, Connecticut, United States
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1719 |
1719
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Connecticut, United States
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1723 |
November 10, 1723
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Hebron, Tolland, Connecticut, United States
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1762 |
September 19, 1762
Age 78
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Hebron, Hartford County, Connecticut Colony, Colonial America
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1762
Age 77
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Hebron, Tolland County, CT, United States
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