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Mary Wilcox (Lane)

Also Known As: "Long", "Farnsworth"
Birthdate:
Birthplace: England
Death: April 03, 1671 (51-60)
Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut
Place of Burial: Riverside Cemetery, Middletown, Middlesex County, Connecticut, USA
Immediate Family:

Daughter of William Lane, of Dorchester and Agnes Lane
Wife of Joseph Long II; Joseph Farnsworth and John Wilcox, II
Mother of Joseph Long, III; Thomas Long, Sr.; Esther Farnsworth and Samuel Farnsworth
Sister of Avis Lincoln; Andrew Lane, of Hingham; George Lane, of Hingham; Sarah Baker and Elizabeth Rider

Occupation: Joseph Farnsworth's will calls her "Mary, formerly wife of John Long and Thomas Long".
Managed by: Andrew Jonathan Smith
Last Updated:

About Mary Wilcox

Mary Lane

  • b. est 1615 Beaminster, Dorset, England (possibly)
  • d.bet 3 Apr 1671 and 7 Sep 1671 Middletown, Middlesex, Connecticut, United States
  • Daughter of William Lane, of Dorcester and Agnes (unknown)

Mary (Lane) (Long) (Farnsworth) Wilcox, who died at Middletown in 1671,

  • daughter of William Lane and widow of Joseph Long and of Joseph Farnsworth, both of Dorchester, Mass.; …
  • The will of William Lane of Dorchester, Mass., made 28 Feb. 1650/1, proved 6 July 1654, named his daughter, Mary Long.
    • By her first husband, Joseph Long, she was mother to Thomas Long who married her stepdaughter, Sarah Wilcox; also of Joseph Long, Jr., of Dorchester, who died 26 Aug. 1676.
  • For her second husband, and as his second wife, she married Joseph Farnsworth of Dorchester, who in his will made 2 Jan. 1659/60 provided for his children and for his wife Mary and her children Joseph and Thomas Long.
    • By him she had a son, Samuel Farnsworth, who settled in Windsor, Conn., and for his first wife married, 3 June 1677, Mary3 Stoughton, daughter of Thomas[2] Stoughton and presumably niece of John[2] Wilcox's second wife.
  • Mary Willcox of Middletown, in her will dated 3 Apr. 1671, proved 7 Sept. 1671, gave to her son Samuel Farnsworth, £10 out of her land in Dorchester, the remainder of the land to her husband, John Willcox; to son, Joseph Long, the bill she had of him for the purchase of land; to Mary Wilcox, some clothing; to Sarah Long, the bed and bolster already in her house in Hartford; witnesses: John Hall, Ann Hall (her mark)." Source: John Wilcox, in Jacobus, Donald Lines, and Edgar Francis Waterman. Hale, House and Related Families, Mainly of the Connecticut River Valley. (Hartford: The Connecticut Historical Society, 1952), 806-06.))

She married John/Joseph Long/Longe in 1638 in Dorchester.

She married Joseph Farnsworth [as his second wife] 1645 to January 12, 1659 in Dorchester.

She married John Wilcox/Wilcock April 20, 1660 in Dorchester. There were no Wilcox children of this marriage. Mary (Long) Farnsworth Wilcox died 1671, before September 7. In her will dated May 3, 1671, she mentions her son Joseph Long and his wife Sarah, and her son Samuel Farnsworth,not then of age.

Died 1671 at Middletown or Hartford, Connecticut 

Mary Long of Dorchester petitioned the court to declare her husband, Joseph Long, dead in order to remarry as found in the following archived petition and court action:

  • "Mary Long states that her husband, although not in good health, went to England to obtain a legacy of 60 pounds left him by his father, but since the receipt of a letter from London in which his intention of proceeding the next day is stated, no further word had been received. Capt. Poole of Taunton had speech with William Long, the brother with whom Joseph was to transact his business, who had not seen or heard of him. Mr. John Holmes receives letters from his father-in-law, Mr. Bishop in England, who has endeavored in vain to obtain trace of Long. Others, who have correspondents in England were interested, but without result. Hence it is thought Joseph is dead. The Court thinks any man can marry with the said Mary without anticipating trouble." [Mass. Archives, book 9, p. 16 at the State House, Boston]. On 22 May 1651 "In answer to the petition of Mary Long of Dorchester for liberty to Marry, this Court declares, there can come no damage to any magistrate or any other p'son authrized, that shall marry the petitionr p'vided she be published according to law." [Records of the Colony of Massachusetts Bay in new England, p. 232 found in the State House, Boston] (Cites Bates: Gen Sarai Stow Ellis p. 47-48.)

Parents:

  • F. William Lane bef 1581 - bet 1650/51
  • M. Agnes Unknownb ef 1586 - bef 1650/51
  • m. bef 1606
  • Siblings:
    • Avis Lane1606 - 1682/83
    • William Lane1608 -
    • Andrew Lane1610 - 1675
    • George Lane1613 - 1689
    • Mary Lane est 1615 - bet 1671
    • Sarah Lane1617 - 1695
    • Elizabeth Lane est 1627 -

Spouse

  • H. Joseph Long bef 1611 - bef 1651
  • W. Mary Lane est 1615 - bet 1671
  • Children:
    • Joseph Long est 1636 - 1676
    • Thomas Long est 1641 - 1711

Spouse

  • H. Joseph Farnsworth bef 1603 - 1659/60
  • W. Mary Lane. est 1615 - bet 1671
  • m. bef 1656
  • Children
    • Samuel Farnsworth1656 - 1697
  • Spouse and Children
    • H. John Wilcox est 1620
    • W. Mary Lane est 1615 - bet 1671
    • m. aft 1660

Facts and Events

  • Name[1] Mary Lane
  • Gender Female
  • Birth[1] est 1615 Beaminster, Dorset, England (possibly)
  • Marriage bef 1636 to Joseph Long
  • Marriage bef 1656 Dorchester, Suffolk, Massachusetts, United States (probably)to Joseph Farnsworth
  • Marriage aft 1660 to John Wilcox
  • Death[2] bet 3 Apr 1671 and 7 Sep 1671 Middletown, Middlesex, Connecticut, United States
  • Will[2] 3 Apr 1671
  • Probate[2] 7 Sep 1671 Will proved.

References

  • 1. ↑ 1.0 1.1 William Lane, in Anderson, Robert Charles; George F. Sanborn; and Melinde Lutz Sanborn. The Great Migration: Immigrants to New England, 1634-1635. (NEHGS, 1999-2011), 4:232.
    • "Mary Lane, b. say 1615; …"
  • 2. John Wilcox, in Jacobus, Donald Lines, and Edgar Francis Waterman. Hale, House and Related Families, Mainly of the Connecticut River Valley. (Hartford: The Connecticut Historical Society, 1952), 806-06.
    • "… Mary (Lane) (Long) Farnsworth, who died at Middletown in 1671, daughter of William Lane and widow of Joseph Long and of Joseph Farnsworth, both of Dorchester, Mass.; … The will of William Lane of Dorchester, Mass., made 28 Feb. 1650/1, proved 6 July 1654, named his daughter, Mary Long. By her first husband, Joseph Long, she was mother to Thomas Long who married her stepdaughter, Sarah Wilcox; also of Joseph Long, Jr., of Dorchester, who died 26 Aug. 1676. For her second husband, and as his second wife, she married Joseph Farnsworth of Dorchester, who in his will made 2 Jan. 1659/60 provided for his children and for his wife Mary and her children Joseph and Thomas Long. By him she had a son, Samuel Farnsworth, who settled in Windsor, Conn., and for his first wife married, 3 June 1677, Mary[3] Stoughton, daughter of Thomas[2] Stoughton and presumably niece of John[2] Wilcox's second wife. Mary Willcox of Middletown, in her will dated 3 Apr. 1671, proved 7 Sept. 1671, gave to her son Samuel Farnsworth, £10 out of her land in Dorchester, the remainder of the land to her husband, John Willcox; to son, Joseph Long, the bill she had of him for the purchase of land; to Mary Wilcox, some clothing; to Sarah Long, the bed and bolster already in her house in Hartford; witnesses: John Hall, Ann Hall (her mark)." 

  • 3. ↑ 3.0 3.1 3.2 Wilcox, Mary, of Middletown, in Manwaring, Charles W. A Digest of the Early Connecticut Probate Records. (Hartford, Conn.: R. S. Peck & Co., 1904-06), 1:255-56. "Probate Records. Vol. III, 1663 to 1677. Page 92.


    • Wilcox, Mary, of Middletown. Will dated 3 April, 1671. (No Inventory.)
*** Mary, the wife of John Wilcox, April the third, being very sick & weak, & as she sayd shce conceived her selfe neer her death yet shee was of sound understanding & memory, shee declared by word of mouth this following to be her Last Will & Testament, viz: She gave to her sonn Samuel Fernsworth Tenn pounds sterling out of her Land in the great Lotts at Dorchester, as a remembrance of her, & the remaynder of the Lott shee gave unto her husband John Willcox. Moreover, she gave unto her sonn Joseph Long the Bill shee had of him for Land he Bought of her; & shce gave her white wascoat & her red Dammy coat to Mary Wilcox; and She gave to Sarah Long her feather Bed & Boulstcr which is at Hartford In her House all ready, & her Cloath wascoat with the great Silver lace, & a petty Coate Likewise. She did Give & Freely resigne up to her husband John Willcox that part of his Estate which was Mortgaged to her by her sayd Husband, & she desired that that tenn pounds shee gave to her sonn Samuel Fernsworth should be delivered Into the hands of her trusty friend Captain Hopcstill Foster of Dorchester, to be kept for him untill he come of age. This above written of her voluntary accord very freely she declared to be her Last will & Testament, the 3 April, 1671.
      • In the presence of us John Hall, Ann X Hall.

      • John Wilcox owned in Court that he gave his wife Liberty to make her will & dispose of those things mentioned in her will. John and Ann Hall sworn in Court to the truth of what is above written.

      • Court Record, Page 114—7 September, 1671: The Will of Mary, the late wife of John Wilcox, exhibited and approved."

Source:

  • http://www.werelate.org/wiki/Person:Mary_Lane_%2867%29
    • Mary, daughter of William Lane, who was in Dorchester, Mass, as early as 1636.
    • She married secondly, Joseph Farnsworth, and
    • thirdly, Joseph Wilcox Jr.
    • Her will, dated 3 April 1671, is on file at Hartford, Conn.
    • Children of Joseph & Mary (Lane) Long:
      • 1. +Joseph, died 16 Aug 1676 in Dorchester MA; married 3 Dec 1661 to Mary --
      • 2. +Thomas, b. est. 1644; estate administered 4 Feb 1711/12 in Hartford CT; married 1) 1666 to Sarah Wilcox; m2) Sarah Elmer.

SOURCES & AUTHORITIES:

  • - New England Families in England, Emmerton & Waters
  • - The Register, 9:140,100:220; 100:328;Mass. Archives, 9:16
  • - Records of the Colony of Mass. Bay, p. 232
  • - Long Family of Dorchester and Conn., by Mary (Wood) Bates, 1931 (MSS at NEGH Soc. Library).

Sarah Wilcox, born Bet. 1618 - 1623; died June 15, 1690 in Hartford, CT.  

  • She was the daughter of John Wilcox and 651. Mary Wylsher.
  • Children of John Bidwell and Sarah Wilcox are:
    •  i.   John Bidwell, born 1641; died July 03, 1692 in Hartford, CT; married Sarah Welles November 07, 1678 in Hartford, CT; born April 1659 in Wethersfield, CT; died 1708 in Hartford, CT.
    •  ii.  Joseph Bidwell, born Abt. 1645; died 1692; married Mary Colefax May 18, 1675; born February 1656/57; died Unknown.
    •  iii.  Mary Bidwell, born Abt. 1647; died Unknown; married John Meakin Unknown; born Unknown; died Unknown
    •  iv.  Samuel Bidwell, born 1650 in Hartford, CT; died April 05, 1715 in Middletown, CT; married (1) Elizabeth Stowe November 14, 1672 in Middletown, CT; married (2) Sarah Harris Bet. 1694 - 1695; married (3) Abigale Harris Aft. 1696.
    •  v.   Sarah Bidwell, born Abt. 1652; died 1687; married William House 1670; born Unknown; died Unknown.
    •  vi.   Hannah Bidwell, born 1653; died Unknown; married John Waddams Unknown; born Unknown; died Unknown
    • vii.  Daniel Bidwell, born 1655; died November 29, 1719; married (1) Elizabeth Unknown; born Unknown; died Unknown; married (2) Dorothy Benton Unknown; born Unknown; died Unknown.

Source:

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===Mary Lane===

  • F, #26227,
  • b. circa 1608,
  • d. 1671
  • Father William Lane b. c 1580
  • Mother Agnes Farnsworth b. 1584, d. 3 Apr 1671
  • Mary Lane was born circa 1608 at Norfolk, England.
  • She married Joseph Long, son of Joseph Longe, circa 1630.1,2
  • Mary Lane died in 1671 at Hartford, Hartford, CT.
  • Family Joseph Long b. c 1605, d. a 1650
  • Children
    • Joseph Long+ b. 1639, d. 26 Aug 1676
    • Thomas Long+1,2 b. c 1644, d. 8 Nov 1711
  • Citations
    • 1. [S14] Unknown author, New England Marriages Prior to 1700, by Clarence Almon Torrey., p. 471.
    • 2. [S61] Unknown author, Family Group Sheets, Family History Archives, SLC.
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===Mary Lane Long===

  • Birth: 1608, England
  • Death: Apr. 3, 1671 Hartford County, Connecticut, USA 
  • Burial: Unknown
  • Birth date is "best guess".
  • She married second to Joseph Farnsworth, and then to Joseph Wilcox Jr. 
  • Family links: 
    •  Spouse:  Joseph Long (1605 - 1651)* 
    •  Children:  Thomas Long (1644 - 1711)* 
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Mary Lane Wilcox

  • Birth: 1630, England
  • Death: Apr. 3, 1671 Middletown, Middlesex County, Connecticut, USA
  • Burial: Riverside Cemetery, Middletown, Middlesex County, Connecticut, USA
    • Note: Time and weather has erased the location of this grave.
  • Mary is the third wife of John Wilcox II. She married John about 1661. They had no known children although it has been suspected she died in childbirth.  
  • Family links
    • Parents:
      •   William Lane (1581 - 1654)
      •   Agnes Lane 
    •  Spouse:
      •   John Wilcox (1621 - 1676)* 
    •  Siblings:
      •   Sarah Lane Baker (____ - 1695)*
      •   Elizabeth Lane Rider*
      •   Anis Lane Lincoln (1606 - 1683)*
      •   Andrew Lane (1610 - 1675)*
      •   George Lane (1613 - 1689)*
      •   Mary Lane Wilcox (1630 - 1671)  
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Lane Genealogies. Volume II.Compiled by James Hill Fitts. Exeter, N.H., The News-Letter Press. 1897. 1- William Lane & Descendants pg 1- 4

Children of William Lane in the order mentioned in his will:

  • II) Mary [2],
    • b. England,
    • m. first, Joseph Long, who lived and died in England, leaving two sons who came with their mother and grandfather Lane to Dorchester.
    • She m. second, Joseph Farnsworth, of Dorchester, a widower with four children. They received by her father’s will the Great Lot estimated 24 acres, and personal estate. He was a freeman Mar. 14, 1639; selectman, 1647; and died 12 June, 1660.
    • She was living a widow in 1690.
    • Her children by Josep Long:
      • 1. Joseph, Senior, res., Dorchester, m. 3 Feb., 1662, Mary, and d. 26 Aug., 1676.
        • His Children: (1) Mary, b. 9, 4, 1665 [9 Ap 1665], m. Henry Straight & Thomas Litchfield, and d. abt 1703.; (2) Sarah, b. 3, 7 1667 [7 Mar 1667]; (3) Joseph, b. 31, 6, 1669 [31 Jun 1669]; (4) Hannah, b. 3, 12,1671 [3 Dec 1671]; (5) Alwen, b. 28, 9, 1673 [28 Sep 1673]. -- Dorchester Records.
      • 2. Thomas, res. Roxbury, Mass., m. and had:
        • (1) Thomas, b. 26 Nov., 1688.
    • Her children by Joseph Farnsworth:
      • 3. Joseph, mentioned in his father’s will, June 2, 1660
      • 4. Samuel, res. Windsor, Conn., m. first, 3 June, 1677, Mary, [3] daughter of Thomas, Jr., {2} and Mary (Wadsworth) Stoughton. He m. second, in 1685, Mary, day,. of John and Mary (Brown) Moses. A child by each wife. (1) Mary, b. 17 May, 1678, d. in a few days; (2) Joseph, b. 1694.
      • 5. Esther, unm. at the time of her father’s will, June 2, 1660
      • 6. Elizabeth, m. Jon Mansfield, res, Hingham.
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Mary Wilcox's Timeline

1615
1615
England
1639
1639
Dorchester, Suffolk, Massachusetts, USA
1646
1646
Dorchester, Suffolk County, Massachusetts Bay Colony
1656
July 14, 1656
Dorchester, Suffolk County, Massachusetts
1671
April 3, 1671
Age 56
Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut
1885
July 14, 1885
Age 56